If my heart could be seen as living space it would be similar to the room above;
well used, a bit worn and even abused, but more than serviceable.
…has become dusty from years of use
but is a safe place to be.
…has seen the ravages of time and grief
but loves better than it was ever able to before.
…has pieces of the past strewn all around
but plenty of safe space for feelings remain.
…has the grime and dirt of time all over it
but a joy for living lies brightly inside still.
…has a foundation of the spirit and soul that is strong
but with humility that has made room for more.
…has a window glazed with time from the inside
but light passes through softer because of it.
…has dark corners that linger and always will hang there
as scars covering pain; the teacher, that taught me well.
…has broken things within that will always remain
but they are no hindrance for love to have residence there.
All these things and more describe the condition of my heart. It is capable of deep and more sustainable love of all kinds than ever before. To be grateful for the good that has been and yet will come, I also must have gratitude for the difficult and trying times that also helped grow my heart into the healthy state it is today.
Suffering has been stronger
than all other teaching,
and has taught me to understand
what your heart used to be. I
have been bent and broken,
but – I hope – into a better shape.
From “Great Expectations”
by Charles Dickens