This week and next there’s a good chance you will be exposed to a fake hypothesis called “Blue Monday”, supposedly the most depressing day of the year. Quite a few have accepted the theory as truth to the point there is disagreement about the actual date. Some assert the gloomiest day falls on the third Monday of January. Others declare the most dismal Monday of the year is the fourth one each January.
The theory behind “Blue Monday” is based on a bogus formula: Weather plus debt minus salary multiplied by the time since Christmas to the time since failure to fulfill New Year’s resolutions. Then take that and divide by motivational level and the need to take action. Sound fishy? It is!
The origin of the idea of the most depressing day of the year is said to come from a psychologist named Dr Cliff Arnall. He is usually described as a Cardiff University professor although it appears he may have only taught at UK’s Cardiff part-time. There is actually no science what so ever behind the assertion of “Blue Monday”. Since originating the idea to help a British travel agency sell vacations, Arnall has admitted that the formula is meaningless.
Such nonsense actually distracts from a type of real depression that does occur with greater frequency this time of year. Called SAD or Seasonal Affective Disorder, some people experience real symptoms of depression during the winter. The Canadian Mental health Association estimates 2% and 3% of the general population may have SAD. Another 15% have a less severe experience described as the “winter blues.”
Cases of seasonal affective disorder, where the weather triggers depression, do tend to peak around this time of year, says psychiatrist Mark Berber of the University of Toronto. “There is some truth to the fact that we do get low moods in mid-January, but the idea that there’s a particular day and a particular way of equating the severity of the low mood — I think that’s somewhat far-fetched,” he said.
So being depressed is a little more likely this time of year, but it is NOT the annual January epidemic that the Cardiff psychologist suggests. When one remembers Dr. Arnall created his formula for “Blue Monday” to sell travel packages the proper perspective is in place.
In spite of knowing that the vast majority of people (north of 80%) are never affected by the winter blues of any sort, some will insist on being depressed just because they choose to. For those people here are the lyrics to a Dave Bartholomew song that Fats Domino sings:
Blue Monday how I hate blue Monday!
Gotta work like a slave all day.
Here come Tuesday
Oh, hard Tuesday
I’m so tired, got no time to play
Here come Wednesday
I’m beat to my socks
My girl calls, gotta tell her that I’m out
Cause Thursday is a hard-working day,
And Friday I get my pay
Saturday morning
oh Saturday morning
All my tiredness is gone away
Got my money and my honey
And I’m out on the stand to play
Sunday morning my head is bad.
But it’s worth it for the time that I had
But I got to get my rest
because Monday is a mess.
Personally my discovery has been the level of happiness or depression in my life depends mostly on what I choose to think and feel. I may not be able to control the world around me, but I do have a good bit of power over how deeply I let depression or happiness affect me. My motto has long been “expand the good and diminish the bad”. Guiding my thinking and paying attention to what I dwell on has a lot to do with my level of satisfaction with life. It takes practice, but directing my mind in the direction I want it to go works most of the time. I am grateful to know that!
By the way, research sponsored by an ice cream company has deemed June 17 to be the happiest day of the year.
Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
Abraham Lincoln
Funny, I’ve been a bit down the past few days, but I’m pulling myself up by the bootstraps…using meditation and focusing on the anxiety to relieve it.